Life is a combination of gains and losses, glory and defeat.
In our lifetime, we will experience a lot, gain and possess, and inevitably encounter things that we cannot understand and control.
Thinking of making changes, but the deeper the obsession, the more bitter life becomes; the more we argue, the more unanswered questions arise.
It is better to bravely face the irrationality and prejudice, and calmly accept frustration and success.
Just do your best and go with the flow.
Forget about half, let half go
The Buddhist philosophy teaches that attachment is suffering.
Since we cannot have everything go our way, it is better to choose to let go.
In the world of adults, learning to forget is a form of practice, and learning to let go is wisdom.
Forget about hatred, let revenge go
The "bag of hatred" is everywhere in reality. When faced with harm, always retaliating will eventually drag you into the abyss.
Oscar Wilde once said, "Holding onto hatred is like letting thorns grow in your own heart."
Forgetting about hatred is not weakness or surrendering, but timely freeing yourself from pain.
Letting go of others is actually letting go of ourselves.
Learning to move on from the hurt, clearing the slate of hatred, and living in the present with a light heart.
Forget about gains and losses, let go of comparisons
Life is about gains and losses, and it's important not to be resentful.
Life cannot be controlled in every aspect, and gains and losses are also difficult to measure.
Some people are too concerned about temporary gains and losses, and as a result, they become burdened by their own self-interest and are plagued with worries.
Ernest Hemingway once said, "As long as you don't care about gains and losses, there's nothing in life that can't be overcome."
Many times, if you don't mind losing, you'll actually gain more.
Expand your perspective and broaden your mind, and the road ahead will become clearer.
Forget about attachments, let go of demands
When people interact with each other, many conflicts and anguish arise from attachments.
Trying hard to save a relationship that is drifting apart only brings trouble to both parties.
Learning to let go in a timely manner is actually for the benefit of each other.
Life is a journey of constant goodbyes. We must learn to adapt to the gathering and parting.
Forgetting attachments and demanding less is the best way to treat ourselves.
Understand half, let half go
Life is a question that will always have regrets no matter how it is answered.
Many times, we choose to be silent, not because we don't care, but because we gradually understand that if we always have to compete and prove ourselves, we are actually in conflict with ourselves.
The biggest awakening as an adult: understanding half and letting half go.
Understand different values, let go of arguments
Wise and mature people will understand that everyone has their own world, so they will not argue with others.
In this world, everyone is entrenched in their own beliefs and it is difficult to be swayed or changed by others.
If values differ, it is better not to insist on seeking others' approval.
If you keep arguing, not only will you not find a reason, but it is also a meaningless drain on yourself.
Understand that things change, let go of entanglements
In his book "A Lifetime of Freedom," Ji Xianlin said:
"If you are always entangled, then the pain will torment you mercilessly and vividly, so you'd better be indifferent, even more indifferent."
Those things that we were unwilling to let go of have become the past; those people we once resented are just passers-by in our lives.
Life always moves forward, and we must not keep looking back.
Life is like a book, we need to turn the pages to write new chapters.
Understand our own ordinariness, let go of showing off
Everyone has their own hidden grievances. Instead of competing with ourselves, it is better to accept the present as it is.
The most difficult practice in life is choosing to reconcile with ourselves.
